People have several different reasons for having relationships which may include companionship, friendship, marriage and what have you. However, some ingredients such as trust and faith are essential for its survival.
Knowing if that one person you cared about told you the truth about her virginity is perhaps key to the development of the relationship and although it may be easy as you grow more and garner experience, it is usually difficult at first.
It is a well known fact that spotting if she’s a virgin is best determined through direct inspection as most times, it is difficult to distinguish virgins and non-virgins behaviourally. More often than not, ladies that fl!rt a lot are most certainly not virgins so are the attractively shy and conservative ones too. For this reason, we present to you some telltale signs that you can snap up to determine if that girl with you remains intact.
1. Medical Examination
This perhaps is the best way yet to know if your girl is still a virgin. This involves checking the hymen. This method however comes with a caveat as many ladies will be offended at a suggestion of a medical examination most especially if the idea is brought up in a less private place. More so, the presence or absence of the hymen is not a concrete determinant of virginity. There are several activities that could cause a ladies hymen to break without prior sexual intercourse. Rigorous athletic activities or the use of sex toys could do damage to the hymen. Also, some ladies may have their hymen intact despite having previously had sex. Despite the exceptions which are usually far between, the presence of an intact hymen is a fairly accurate method of determining her virginity.
2. Attitude & Behaviour
Just like our personalities can be determined by our attitude and behaviour, so can you get a clue of female virginity from these. There are attitudinal clues that may indicate virginity. Some of these may include the religious background of the lady, moral uprightness and ideologies. Though it appears that religion, morals and feminism are squarely against sex for different reasons. Some believe sex is wrong as they see it as a form of exploitation while others consider it a sin when done outside marriage. It is however apparent that a display of any of these characteristics might be an indication of virginity.
Furthermore, some Psychologists have said that a lot of ladies do not stay as virgins for the reasons they put forward. Some have been said to remain virgins as a result of ugliness and decide to stay as virgins because they do not want to become cheap by sleeping with some one that is not of their social strata. Thus, for this reason, they justify their staying off s*x by declaring sex as immoral.
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3. Birth Control Pill
Well, you wouldn’t see a virgin take birth control pills now, or would you? Seeing packs of birth control pills in her cabinet or purse is an indication she is no longer a virgin. Why is she trying to stop a pregnancy I’d she’s not doing it?
4. Testing for STD’s
Most probably, if she is testing for sexually transmitted infections then she definitely has had sex. For her to be testing for HIV, Hepatitis or syphilis means she has had it with a guy and worried if she will get an infection from a prior intercourse.
Obviously, a girl doesn’t need to be pretty before she has sex nor does she have to be fat and ugly as there are a million and one guys out there willing to sleep with anything that has a hole. If a lady is pretty, the chances of her being a virgin is slim except she is a feminist or a religious buff but she may still be having sex though. However, most girls that remain virgins are often times ugly but note that not all ugly girls are virgins. An example are prostitutes who appear ugly most times and have had a huge amount of sex. Thus, appearance can only be employed as a method of dismissing virginity claims and not confirming it.
6. Skin colour
Her skin colour could help you determine her virginity. Virgins tend to have soft and fairer skins than their non virgin counterparts. Ladies that have made out tend to have darker and more coarse skins.